The Unknowable This

Nonduality with Tobias Ricardo

Welcome, divine friends.This site is dedicated to an exploration of Nonduality, a term commonly used to describe the nature of reality as being essentially undivided, whole, and complete. In other words, simply, unknowably, this. It is by no means just another spiritual or philosophical book upon the shelf, full of explanations and instructions on how to reach liberation. It exposes directly that the sense of separation thought of as the ‘me’, is an illusion, and that there is only liberation, timelessly, already. This is it!This can be a highly shocking and provocative idea. It, of course, directly contradicts the feeling of ‘me-ness’ which is that very sense of self. But this is the illusion that may be dispelled - not that it needs to be. As it is an illusion; it already isn’t there. But it is in the subtle confrontation of this paradox, and the subtle stirrings and shakings it so often brings to one’s sense of self, that can, on occasion, let in that metaphorical ray of light, and the true nature of reality might be impersonally glimpsed.The apparent collapse of that illusory sense of separate selfhood is by no means a process. In fact what is seen is that separation never was, and that all there ever was, was this. This is liberation.And this is it, divine friends, already.

Weekly Meetings

Every Sunday 4-6pm UK Time

Zoom Meetings are a chance for many of us to come together in the same spaceless space to both celebrate and explore this extraordinary topic. The illusory bond of selfhood finds it difficult to maintain its bondage when this impersonal revelation is ‘seen’. Then all that is left is all that there ever was.Participation is FREE OF CHARGE and all are welcome.Any donations are, of course, hugely appreciated, but that should always be left entirely up to you. I trust you all completely, and I want you all to feel completely free to attend the meetings in whatever capacity you feel appropriate, be it as celebrant, friend, sponsor … or all three.

Meeting Recordings

Watch previous zoom meetings, uploaded one-to-one chats (shared with permission!), and shorts on YouTube using the link below.


Personal Meetings

I welcome the opportunity to meet and connect one-on-one. If you would like to set up a chat, feel free to reach out via email so we can find a time that works for us both. These sessions are offered freely, though donations are always deeply appreciated if you feel moved to support.

Email: [email protected]


Live Events

Brighton Talk
October 17, 2026

Join me for a live meeting where we can explore this message together and and enjoy each others company. There is no set charge for this meeting, but donations are always appreciated. To get further details and reserve your place, just send over an email!


Hatfield Sussex
November 21, 2026


Brussels
December 11-13, 2026

Come and join in three days of meetings, fun, love and laughter in the beautiful town of Stockel, in
Brussels, Belgium. The meetings will be held over three days and will take place at the home of
one of the community members, who is kindly hosting the event. The address will be sent out on
booking. The timetable for the event is as follows -
Friday 11th December
6pm – 8pm Meeting 1
Saturday 12th December
2pm – 6pm Meeting 2
(with breaks)
Sunday 13th December
10am – 12pm Meeting 3
Lunch
1pm – 3pm Meeting 4
(and special Christmas story)

There will be ample time between the meetings to spend time socializing, laughing, joking
and feasting together - and this is very much encouraged! This is, after all, a message about freedom! For those who want to, there will also be chances to eat out together locally, and to enjoy the local amenities.
For anyone attending the meetings, there will also be time to spend privately with me, if you want
to discuss anything more personal.
If you are interested in attending then you can book the event by emailing me directly at [email protected]To cover the costs of travel etc. a small donation for attending is asked, and as a rough recommendation, we ask that for one day the minimum recommended donation is £30, for two
days £50 and for the full 3 days, £80. Obviously, if generosity inspires you, then please feel free to treat these amounts as recommended minimums, and give whatever you feel appropriate. It is all greatly appreciated. The email and PayPal links are attached below. Just let me know what you are booking, and what you have paid for, when you email.
Much much love everybody, and see you all there.

About Tobias

Tobias was born in Manchester, England, spending a good deal of his twenties traveling the world. Finding himself disillusioned, he went on to become an ordained Hindu monk. After spending many years living in this order with a variety of enlightened masters, and having many extraordinary experiences, he finally came upon the teachings of the classical Advaita Vedanta schools of Nonduality. Following a serious accident, he left the monastery, intending to further investigate this nondual philosophy. Having met with many of the modern teachers of traditional Advaita and participating in their awareness teachings, he again became disillusioned, seeing this, too, as just more rarified and nuanced spiritual experience.It was then that he first encountered speakers who discussed Nonduality in a more radical manner; not as a philosophy or as a practice one could engage in and achieve supposed spiritual results with, but rather as a radical and direct exposure of what already, timelessly, and unknowably, is. This caused a profound and dramatic shift. Soon any notion of separate existence, lived through time fell away, revealing clearly and impersonally, and with a shocking immediacy, that it never had been there in the first place, nor could have ever been. A paradox of mind bending beauty and of love. It was seen that there never had been any riddle to solve, nor any problem to fix, nor any solution that was needed. That there was just no question. No question at all.
All there was, was simply, unknowably this.